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So when that$1,200 came, I used a portion of it to upgrade my phone because through watching YouTube videos, I knew if I wanted to be a content creator, I needed to have at least a good phone.
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So some of it went to that.
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I also went to Ross and purchased things like, you know, these really cute backgrounds that you have right now, little flowers, you know, a shelf, just like something that would look nice if I'm recording videos.
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I also bought a Canvas subscription to be able to make my own content.
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And I formed my LLC with that$1,200.
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And the last thing is I bought some domains.
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So for my website, et cetera.
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And then the little bit that was left over, I kept it in case I wanted to run ads, which I've never run ads because I know nothing about it.
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So that's really how I divvied up that$1,200.
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And the rest of it went into just sweat equity.
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Sugar Teddy podcast, yo.
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Learn how to make them pockets grow.
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Five minutes for freedoms where we go.
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Smart investments, money flow.
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Hey, babe.
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What are we talking about today?
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Today we are talking about one of my favorite topics: women and money, and women who have made a huge pivot and have turned their life around.
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Because whatever your story is, wherever you are right now, if you feel stuck, if you feel like, man, you know, I'm 30, I'm 40, I should have, I could have, I, you know, whatever that is, your story is not over.
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And we have a very special guest today, Ellie from Ellie Talks Money.
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And we're gonna get into her pivot story because it is absolutely incredible and inspiring.
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And I'm so honored to have Ellie with us.
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Ellie, welcome to the Sugar Daddy Podcast.
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Yes.
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Thank you all so much.
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I'm so excited to be here.
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I absolutely love the name as well, the Sugar Daddy Podcast.
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Because why not?
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So I'm really excited to spend this time with you all.
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Yes.
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And just in case, Ellie, you didn't know, I'm the Sugar Daddy, just to be very clear.
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Yes, exactly.
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I know.
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I wanted to make sure you knew.
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Let's get into this bio so that everybody knows why we are so excited to chat with you today.
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Ellie Chiop is a business and strategy coach and the founder and CEO of Ellie Talks Money and Elevated Academy.
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I see what you did there.
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That's cute.
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I see it.
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Ellie took her$1,200 stimulus check to start a business that she turned into a multi-million dollar company in under a year before turning 30 years old.
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She has served over 50,000 students and is committed to assisting women to build successful businesses so that they can live the life of their dreams.
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Ellie has built a community of over half a million people and has helped her students secure over$7 million in business funding.
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She has been recognized as one of the uh one of the 25 most influential new voices of money by NextAdvisor and is a top 100 most influential African American by the route.
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She has shared her businesses, success story, and expertise in several media outlets, including Fortune Magazine, Entrepreneur, Newsweek, Fox Business, Business Insider, Next Advisor, and Bloomberg, just to name a few.
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Girl, you are busy.
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I'm like, you know what?
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It's so funny when I do audio like that.
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I'm like, dang, I guess I have gotten a lot done.
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You know?
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And it's so funny because you don't always think like that.
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I know for me, I'm always hard on myself.
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Like, come on, Ellie, you can do more, you can do more.
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But it's really nice to sometimes sit and just take it and like, oh wait, I'm doing, I'm doing a pretty good job.
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Yes.
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And you know, it's so funny because we we always read the guest bio and so many people say exactly what you just said, like, oh my gosh, I guess I really have done this, right?
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Wow, I really have been working hard.
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But I think you guys are just so hardworking that you're always on to the next thing.
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So I want you to also, I'm gonna encourage you today to pause and celebrate everything you've built and your successes.
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And I know we're gonna get into it, but I mean, just applause to you.
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Thank you.
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That means so much.
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Oh, I'm so glad.
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Okay, we have to get into your first money memory, and then we will get into this community you've built, the business you've built, and how you're just crushing it at life.
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Oh my goodness.
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So my first money memory, okay, so this could even be like in childhood.
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Yeah.
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Okay, so uh my first money memory, and I think when I really understood what it meant to have money or not have money, I went to a private all-girls school from, you know, fourth grade all the way up to when I graduated.
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And I it was a predominantly white school.
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I was one of just a handful of, you know, little black girls.
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And I remember, you know, it was maybe in class at one point, we were all talking about what our parents did for work.
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And I was mostly listening because I knew that at the time my mom was a substitute teacher.
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And so I was listening to these parents, I mean, to these kids talking about their parents.
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And I remember one girl was like, Yeah, you know, my dad is a lawyer, and somehow it got to the topic of how much they make.
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She was like, Yeah, my dad makes$250 an hour, which I don't know, he doesn't think it's a lot, but it seems like a lot to me.
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And I remember in that moment, like pulling out my calculator and calculating like a 24-hour day times$250.
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And my mind was just blown.
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And I remember telling myself, like, if my mom made that kind of money, like she could pay for this without a problem, she could do this, she wouldn't be stressed.
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Like it really has sat with me all that time, all this time.
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And, you know, it made me realize there are levels to this life.
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You know, you can certainly earn one amount and, you know, struggle, or you can do whatever it takes to get to that next amount.
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And I think it was at that moment that I decided I'm gonna figure out how I can make$250 an hour or more at some point in my life, you know?
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Um, and thank God I found a way to do that.
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Oh my gosh.
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What a powerful story in like fourth grade to be, you know, calculating that or even to be having that conversation.
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Because I know our kids are seven and five, and we talk to them about money all the time, but they still don't have a concept, right?
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Yeah.
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So even for the other child to say, my dad makes$250 an hour and he doesn't think it's a lot, but I think it's a lot.
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Right.
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That's like what?
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That's also like also the fact that she knew how much her dad made in fourth grade and understood.
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Exactly.
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But if you're talking about money and you're always trying to level up, then you're hopefully, you know, we know that in the white communities and the Asian communities, like people are talking about money.
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Like this is what money.
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This is what you're doing at the country club and on the golf course and while playing tennis.
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So the kids are absorbing, you know, we think they're not listening, but they hear us.
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I mean, like growing up, I had an idea I didn't never knew it was like until I got older how much my mom was making, but I had an idea that we were doing fine in comparison to like my peers.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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That's I think that's really interesting.
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And, you know, now myself as a mom of five, I think back to that a lot.
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And, you know, I don't tell my kids how much we make, but I'm really intentional about taking the taboo away from money.
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Because I know my mom never talked to me about money.
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I just knew a concept of we can't afford it, or, you know, if you go to the store, don't ask for anything because you're not gonna get it.
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You know what I mean?
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So I understood that money was something that you could use to get things that you wanted or needed, but there was never any conversation of budgeting or finances or, you know, saving or investing.
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And I remember, you know, also at that same school, one day, you know, uh one of the students were talking about this new company, Apple.
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Oh.
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And how her dad was talking about getting investments in Apple.
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And, you know, I mean, y'all, this is let's see, I was uh eight or nine at the time.
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So that's like 20 something years ago.
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I mean, so this would have been at the debut of Apple, like when the first, before the first iPhone came out.
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And so I can only imagine if her dad actually did make that investment.
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You know, I mean, come on.
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We're not gonna try right here, right now.
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Okay.
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But we all wish we would have.
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I have a fun story because um my mom was a retired college professor, and in education, they actually used a lot of like Apple computers.
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So like my mom had the first Apple laptop when it came out, but never invested in Apple at that time.
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So, like, literally growing up, all I used was Apple computers back when they were called Macintosh.
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Yeah, and never she never invested in it at that time.
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What a miss.
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What a season.
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I know.
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I mean, granted.
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Hindsight's 2020, and my mom has done very well for herself, and money's not an issue, but I'm still like mom, like, how did you just do that?
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But it could have been better with that Apple Apple.
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Oh man, with that Apple girl.
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We had all done it.
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Oh, you know, just even that, the fact that their children at the you know, at the time were overhearing those conversations.
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That's probably dinner table conversation.
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So we have to, and I know it's been my mission as a mom to make those kind of conversations dinner table conversations too, so that it doesn't feel like when they do get older, they're just, you know, deer in the headlights in the real world about money and you know how to make it.
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Oh, we definitely tell our kids, especially how much things cost.
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Yeah.
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Because they still think like$100 is a lot of money.
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I'm like, uh, not anymore.
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Yeah.
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Oh girl.
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We can run through$100 quick.
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Look at that.
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And I used to remember to be like, just buying berries.
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Yes.
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$20 used to get you, you know, movies, a a meal.
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Okay, maybe also something at the gas station.
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And you might have some change left over.
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Yeah.
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Those days are gone.
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$20 long gone.
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Yeah.
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Ellie, let's go into your kind of origin story of the$1,200 stimulus check that you turned into a multimillion dollar business.
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Because walk us through that.
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How does one take$1,200?
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And, you know, talking about$20, what it used to be,$100, what it used to be,$1,200, you know, is a lot of money, but most people don't see that as a life-changing amount.
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And you really turned it into a life changer.
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Girl.
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So let me take you back to where I was at that time.
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So uh when I was thinking about starting a business, I had just gotten a divorce.
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Um, I was living back at my mom's house with my four children at the time.
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My twins were only, I think, nine months, six months, something like that.
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It was very, very, very fresh because I had just had them in April and we separated in like September.
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So they were very, very small.
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Um, and then, you know, shortly after the pandemic hit, so here we are in 2020.
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Now I'm at home with all four kids.
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I don't have a job.
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I'm doing DoorDash and Postmates, and you know, it was really uh up at that time because of the fact that no one was pulling out.
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So I'm, you know, got my kids in the backseat.
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We're driving all around LA, delivering people's chipotle, delivering pancakes, just like, girl.
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And so when I knew that those stimulus checks were coming, I started to think, okay, I feel like this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
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What am I going to do with this money?
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Now, of course, being a mom, my children got their own little stipend, but that just went into a savings account for them.
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I had to think, what am I gonna do with this$1,200 that's going to come?
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So I actually got mine later than almost everyone else in the country.
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So I think that that was an advantage because I saw people taking their stimulus check and going to the Louis Vuitton store.
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I saw people lining up at the grove.
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I saw it and I said, you know what?
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I'm not gonna do that.
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I'm not gonna take this money and go and buy a bag.
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Like, I'm not gonna do that.
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So when I got mine around May or June, I knew I was gonna put it towards something.
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I just didn't know what.
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So uh really at that time, I had already thought about maybe I should start a consulting company.
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Because prior to starting my business, I worked for a startup in the financial services.
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And so I was director of sales at that startup.
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So I had a lot of experience with sales, I had a lot of experience with, you know, marketing, managing a team.
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Um, and I loved financial services, you know.
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So I knew that that was my world and my gift.
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But now that I wasn't getting hired for a job, how could I take those skills and actually put it towards something?
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So I had started to create content on LinkedIn, you know, I was like, all right, maybe people will hire me as a consultant.
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Nothing was popping off.
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So when that$1,200 came, I used a portion of it to upgrade my phone because through watching YouTube videos, I knew if I wanted to be a content creator, I needed to have at least a good phone.
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So some of it went to that.
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I also went to Ross and purchased things like, you know, these really cute backgrounds that you have right now, little flowers, you know, a shelf, just like something that would look nice if I'm recording videos.
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I also bought a Canvas subscription to be able to make my own content.
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And I formed my LLC with that$1,200.
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And the last thing is I bought some domains.
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So for my website, et cetera.
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And then the little bit that was left over, I kept it in case I wanted to run ads, which I've never run ads because I know nothing about it.
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So that's really how I divvied up that$1,200.
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And the rest of it went into just sweat equity.
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I committed to posting four times a day, every single day.
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That's a full-time job.
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Full-time job.
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I'm like, you know what?
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If no company is hiring me, I'm going to hire myself.
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And I'm going to show up for myself the way that I would show up for a job if I had one.
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And so I made content creation my job.
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And I was just talking about finances.
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If you're a business owner, here's what you can do to make more sales, you know, things that I had experience with at the job that I had.
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And it really wasn't until I started talking about business financing and business credit that everything took off.
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So uh, long story short, my first ever product that I sold was$15.
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It was called a business credit master class.
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And I was educating entrepreneurs how they can build their business credit and become fundable.
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And uh that product made me my first$10,000, my first$100,000, and then I created a second version that made me my first million dollars off of a$50 product.
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That is so incredible.
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I love you you said so many things.
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Were you gonna say something?
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No, I was I'm I'm taking it all in.
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And for those people out there that don't realize how much time goes into making social media posts, you may see a 30-second reel.
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Trust me, it takes probably at least 30 to 30 minutes to an hour to probably create.
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Oh, yeah, at least and sometimes longer.
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Yeah.
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Oh my gosh.
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It is an investment of time for sure.
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100%.
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I love that you observed what other people were doing, right?
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Because everybody was like, I got my STIMI, and they were out in the streets.
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Yeah.
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And you were like, I'm not gonna do that.
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And I think, I think so many people did exactly what you just described.
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They were like, oh, it's free money, and I'm gonna do whatever I want, or you know, do so, I'm gonna treat myself.
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And you were like, I got these kids, I'm up in my mama's house.
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This is not for me.
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You know what's funny to me too?
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Yeah.
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People always think it's free money as if like the government.
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Oh, right.
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That's it.
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Like we didn't give the government this money to turn out and give it back to us.
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Right.
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But you you went and and did something so responsible and you had a plan, and you, I mean, even just the way you talked about how you divvied up your money, you got your domains, you knew you are going to take this money and invest in yourself and show up with something that is very specific, right?
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You have your niche.